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How to Make Love: Sex Passion Secrets to Love That Never Dies
newlovesexmarriage
An Open Letter to Every Married Person
Who Wants to Have
The Best Sex of Your Life By Pam Givens, MFT,
Board Certified Sex Therapist
Nevada City, CA
Hello Friend,
My name is Pam Givens and I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist. My practice is located in Nevada City, CA and my state license number is 27222 (although I'm currently not practicing in order to focus on writing and publishing). I'm married and have a wonderful relationship with my husband, the renowned psychologist Dr. Max Vogt.
I have degrees and certification from a national sex therapy board... and I have devoted my adult working life (after raising children) to helping people with all kinds of emotional issues, mostly in the area of couples relationships. Because of my dedication to helping people, I hope you understand that I would never want to offend anybody.... or... make you emotionally anxious. I want to say this since....
This Whole Letter is About Sex!
If talking about sex embarrasses you... or... if your belief system says that sex is bad... or... if even talking about having great sex offends you... please... do not read any further..
However, if you're wondering if there are married people who keep the mad-passionate, blow-your-mind sex pulsing in their relationship for as long as they are alive... and whether... there are secrets they know that you don't (there are.. and less than 1 out of 10,000 people know anything of this)... well... if that's the case... then... this may be the most important message you ever read... for the health and joy of your marriage.
Here is why: You now know, thanks to the courage of many pioneers in the field of human sexuality, that you have a normal curiosity and desire to discover more about sex and its natural importance in your marriage and relationship.
Now we know... again, thanks to brave pioneers and researchers... that your normal and mentally healthy desire for an exciting sex life in your marriage is healthy. Now we know that it's 100% natural to desire great, mind-blowing sex in your marriage, and if you are mentally healthy, you know you deserve to have great sex.
In every part of society, people all over the world are enthusiastic about turning on their sex lives within their relationships. They know in their heart of hearts that a wonderful sex life is the ground floor of a satisfying relationship... and a satisfying life!
|   Pam Givens, MFT Board Certified American Board of Sexology
Profile: Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, counselor for couples, trainer of therapists, with experience in working with married couples, writing assessments for couples, previous experience working with schools on several levels, including college student counseling (as director of a college counseling department at a recognized university), working with crisis intervention with state organizations throughout the state of California, and hired by agencies within the state of California as a recognized expert in crisis intervention. This experience includes counseling clients from age 6 to age 87! with a variety of backgrounds and experiences... analyzing and identifying issues and creating powerful interventions with clients.
Education: M.A. in Family Systems Therapy from Phillips Graduate Institute and direct supervision with the renowned psychologist Georgianna Rodiger, Ph.D.. Sexology Board Certification from American Board of Sexology and the Institute for the Advanced Study of Human Sexuality and direct supervision with one of the world's experts in sexology, Dr. Louanne Cole Weston. Certificate in Mediation and Conflict Resolution from Lemon Institute.
Professional Accomplishments: Wide divergence of experience working with clients of all ages in many settings from individual private practice to couples therapy and counseling, school counseling, directing a college student counseling department at a well-known university. Worked with children, adults, and families in clinical settings and in private practice, providing both individual and group therapy. Providing Crisis intervention and triage/crisis management with major governmental agencies. Co-Founder of mountaineering program in California with the focus on personal and spiritual development and overcoming limitations (such as physical disability and other usually considered limiting conditions, including limiting beliefs, low self-confidence and "emotional disorders," many of which dissipated with this program).
Office Phone (530) 265-6165 (Pacific Time Zone, USA)
| | "...ten 'very specific' secrets from the 'behind closed doors' sex masters ..." | But there's this little problem. How do you find out about how to have the best sex? Once you have recognized how important great sex is in your marriage, who can you trust to give you the right information and help? The truth is that even those who claim to be "sex experts" are completely lost... completely off base and confused... about the top-notch, first rate techniques of "knock your socks off" exciting sex. OK, I have to admit it, I'm angry about this. You see, pretty much every other "here's how to do sex" product I've seen offered up is only .... An Outrageous Sham of Bad Porn
Passed off as Good Sex Technique!
Most of these "authorities" you see on television or on the radio... the "columnists" and "advice givers"... don't have a clue about... the mutual satisfaction and extreme pleasure which can get from real... superior... honest... sexual technique. They are either trying to hook you on lust or go on about how you must "communicate" to have better sex. They have a point, but it completely misses the target. Why? because... Genuine Communication Can't Happen
When You are Sexually Frustrated...
Due to Poor Sexual Skill and Lack of Technique With the Internet and the constant thirst for programming in the media, we've spawned a monster. People can just go around calling themselves "sex experts," and get away with it. But these so-called sex experts... are mentally just like teenagers... everything they learned about sex, they learned... obviously... from movies, from porn, from television... not from real experts. And these "authorities" confuse the public even more, because they are passing off "teenage" ideas about sex... the lowest common denominator... things they learned on the street or from "their experience." It just keeps you in ignorance. And that's why I'm angry about it. These people are making your sex life worse. The porn industry is the worst culprit of all. They show you all these shiny... shaved... bodies... "wind-up toy" women with unnatural surgically distorted bodies... mutant men amped up on enhancement drugs... and make you think this is the supreme example of sex. If you think you are learning sexual technique -- the kind that makes for great and satisfying relationships -- from this industry... you are wasting your time. And also guaranteeing yourself total disappointment in real life... in real sex. It's dangerous out there. Millions of good, hard-working honest people are aching to get their hands on genuine information about how to improve their sex life... and... all they get for their efforts is rubbish... trash not even good enough to be put out with the cat litter. I swear this is not fair! However... Here's The Best Sex News In A Long Time! Look. Twelve years ago, I decided I was fed up with the sex experts around, and their rubbish. As a couples counselor, I kept seeing patients with troublesome sex lives, and... honestly... feeling pretty helpless at that time to help them. I have a confession to make. Although I am a Board Certified Sexologist and Certified Sex Therapist (see my credentials below my picture) now... it wasn't always this way. As a matter of fact, I'm pretty sure I was maybe even more confused than the average person about sex (and that's pretty confused!). I grew up in a strict Protestant Christian home and we never... ever... got even close to talking about sex. I mean zero. If anything was even on tv which implied sex, click! Change the channel. If a singer on tv "wiggled too much" while they sang, "click! The only time I ever remember my mother mentioning sex was when I started dating and was warned not to do "anything that would embarrass the family." I just assumed that she meant if I had sex and got pregnant this would bring terrible disgrace to my family and especially to my mother. Of course I sneaked to movies, talked with my girlfriends, experimented a little (feeling totally guilty and ashamed), went to San Francisco to live and experimented while feeling utterly confused out of my mind...and did eventually get married and have kids. And later became a professional therapist... but through all my studies and professional supervision, I found out nothing new under the sun offered by the so called "experts." Until twelve years ago when I decided to specialize in sex therapy in my practice... thus facing the "monster" directly!... and spent two years and tens of thousands of dollars studying in northern California with some true experts... people who discussed the real secrets of sex... the real techniques of sex... how a few people have the most mind-blowing satisfying sex in the world. Early in my specialty studies, these doctors and true experts started by talking about the usual anatomy lessons and communication... I was starting to feel disappointed.... when they showed me some of the most intensely erotic movies... real sex like I had never seen it before... people truly enjoying sex... people with real bodies... people of every age... genuine folks like you and me... having the most incredible sex of their lives! They Showed Exactly
How to Have The Most Incredible Sex! I understood now that ordinary women like you and me can have orgasms that go on and on... almost endlessly... with waves and waves of incredible pleasure... and that men can have erections --without drugs or enhancements -- that are so hard and lasting... being in complete control of their ejaculations... and both partners can be incredibly happy about this great sex. Are you hearing me? This kind of sex is not just for the so-called "porn stars"... who themselves probably don't even have much pleasure since they are faking it... but real, live, regular people like you and me can have sex that almost knocks you out... real.... crazy... incredible... I was completely stunned by what I learned.... And thrilled. Because now I had two amazing successes. One, I now felt completely relieved of my former guilt and shame about sex... and now I was able to teach those same extraordinary (and yet, HOW SIMPLE AFTER ALL!) techniques to my clients. What discoveries I have made... I never would have even guessed at before, because I was caught in the same confusing messages you are. Here are just some of the things I discovered: - First, I've learned that almost all people learn nothing new about sex after their teen years. This means that sexually... despite your maturity in so many other ways in life.... you may be exactly just a teenager in your sexuality (if you are like most people).
- Second, The sexual skills most people have... probably that you have... are just exactly what your parents used... no better. Even if you consider yourself a "decent" lover you may only be using 5% of your "sexual brain" ... when compared to truly skilled lovers!
- Third, What you know about men and women... and their needs in sex... at this point... may be doing you much more harm than good!
- Finally, There really are a handful of people who know the secrets to incredible married sex... relationship sex which goes on and on and doesn't disappear just because you've been together for a long time... who know how to make their long term relationship a fountain of continuous and incredible passion... sexual desire... love and intimacy. But these people don't talk about these secrets publicly because most people are convinced... that the so-called experts they usually consult... have the answers. There's a reason these secrets are called "secrets."
- One More, and you may or may not have recognized this one... which is that being a skillful lover and having great sex almost always creates...
A Sustained and Amazing Feeling of Confidence and Joy In Life All Around!
I was wrong. In my life previous to this in-depth discovery of what exciting and intense sex is all about... I believed that you can have a life fully satisfying without it. It's kind of what I taught in therapy and counseling. That no one thing has complete influence in your life. Now there may be people for whom this is true... but for the rest of us, explosive and really satisfying sex makes everything in your life better... truly improves your quality of life. You can find so many other areas of joy, personal energy and enthusiasm... zest for life... opening up and becoming charged. Maybe for the first time. Many patients report that they feel they have truly... come to life... after learning how to have hot, exciting sex... with their intimate partner. Don't you wonder why these hot, juicy secrets haven't leaked out to everyone? Why all of us don't know about them... why everyone doesn't teach these secrets? Two reasons. First, they probably wouldn't be believed. A porn-obsessed society just wouldn't see these secrets for the simple power-sex-generators they are. Second, like any of us humans... they naturally want to keep this significant advantage to themselves. Wouldn't you? Being an incredibly good lover... in possession of something which gives you confidence and joy and... frankly... a lot of personal power... it's normal to want to keep these secrets to themselves. So, why haven't these secrets which are... so incredibly hot... leaked out to the rest of the world before now? Plain old human nature: The few lucky ones who learned these secrets just don't want everybody else to know about them. After all, being the best lover around... for real... gives these people an incredible advantage... in all areas of life!
And no one is hounding them anyway, because most people mistakenly believe they already "know what there is to know" about sex... most of us know enough to be a teenager in lust, after all... and this is what most people imagine is sex... they feel they can "make do." What a crock. If you are one of these people who think it's good enough to "make do" with your sex knowledge... you are missing out on so much. It's our nature to be highly sexual... we are the most sexual beings... we crave sex all the time.... if you understand the true meaning of sex... because the drive to connect, love, be intimate... all the things we think of as relationship... all the things you feel... wanting to be understood... admired... respected... desired... we yearn for a loving relationship all day, every day. No matter what you have been taught, you know deep down inside... You Deserve Great, Healthy, Exciting Sex...
It's Your Birthright! You know it but maybe you'd rather not think about it... it can be painful... if your sex life is bad, you can be miserable in every part of your life. It's OK to know this... It's OK to want much better sex... It's healthy and even the mark of a truly healthy and mature person... to want incredible, joyful, satisfying sex. But again... you desperately want information and advice... but we all need it from someone you can trust... someone who gets us out of the muck of the "porn society" and into real... great sex. That's why I created a no-nonsense, simple and straightforward course in one easy down loadable book... which you can get right now... and have these secrets you could never get anywhere else... you can't guess at them... and you will have these secrets by tonight... now... and in just minutes from now, you can re-start your sex life and have sexual skills you may not even know you were missing... Once Again... I Warn You... This is Explicit! I said at the beginning of this letter, if you are offended at all by straight on sex talk, you might want to turn back here. This entire married sex program for having the best sex of your life includes these amazing books and audios:
"From Ho-Hum to Yum-Yum" gives you the details to get you "on the road" to amazing sex. For most people (unless you are very advanced in sex and intimacy), this is the book to start with... the ABSOLUTE book to start with. It will set the stage for exactly what you've always dreamed of in having a great sex life! You simply must start with this book to set the stage to astounding sex.
This book has been a bestseller for years, all by itself with no bonuses, for $39.95... but now it is INCLUDED in your Great Married Sex Package!
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"From Yum-Yum to Sizzling Sex!" gives you the details to have astounding sex.
It's that simple. It's not porn... but it is graphic... the real stuff... the stuff that propels you almost despite yourself... into the world of the hottest and healthiest sex... instructions that might make you blush, but which you will see instantly will drive your partner... and you... crazy in bed.
This brand new book sells by itself for $39.95... but now is INCLUDED in your Great Married Sex Package! |  |
This is the program you've been waiting for. There is no longer any need for a therapist or counselor because of this book.
This 14 day program will turn on every sex switch in your body and if you are not in a coma, will take you far beyond the best sex you have ever had in your life. As I said, no counselor needed.
Each day gives you the exact outline of what to do, when to do it, to SUPERCHARGE your Sex Life!
This program is priceless because, but if we put a dollar amount on it it would have to be the hourly fee I charged in my practice, which is $100 per hour!
Retail value is at least $39.95... but now is INCLUDED in your Great Married Sex Package!
|  | Wow! I talked my husband Dr. Max into including this book for you in my Great Married Sex Package!
He has never published these Affirmations for a Great Sexual Relationship before... these were written ONLY for his private clients... and he charges $300 an hour to meet with him. (But don't even try to get an appointment, he has NO available appointments!)
Retail value on this book alone is at least $39.95 (if you could get it anywhere else - you can't!) ... but now is INCLUDED in your Great Married Sex Package! |  |
Secret conversation between Dr. Max and me about why sex is so important in relationships... what sex really is (this will shock you), what you can discover about yourself and one another in ways that you can NEVER find out in any other way than through great sex... and many other topics that you will find amazing.
Retail value on this interview... well... when we would occasionally meet with a couple together, we charged many thousands of dollars for a single meeting (you would gasp if you knew how much. I would say that this recording is nearly priceless. But for the sake of discussion, let's just say that
Retail value on this interview is at least $39.95 (if you could get it anywhere else! you can't)... and now it is INCLUDED in your Great Married Sex Package.
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The Secret Sex Interviews
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Total Retail Value if you were to purchase these items all separately $199.75 !
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Sex and intimacy the rest of your life together | Here are just a few of the tantalizing instructions you'll find in this straightforward program... and this is ONLY a very tiny portion of what you will receive in The Great Married Sex Package
- How to turn every sexual encounter with your lover into a "hotly anticipated love-fest"... every time! (see page 12)
- The Do-This First Rule that must be followed for women to have intense, sustained orgasms! (HOT! page 14)
- How most men mess up every time during love-making... and the simple 1-2-3 secret that solves this problem (turn to page 15)
- How to stay in your lover's thoughts night and day... in eager, hot anticipation of your next love-making time together! (turn to page 18)
- The "5-minute Wonder" that can blow open the gates on your sex life (So simple, you'll kick yourself you didn't think of it). please turn to page 20!
- The "secret key" the 1 in a thousand men knows to keep women burning in anticipation for sex (you won't want to share this one with anyone!) Quickly turn to page 21 for this one.
- The "go" signal that very few men know how to read about when women are ready for white hot sex! (on page 23)
- The biggest "turn off" women have about sex... men who don't commit this "turn off" almost have women in the palm of their hands...( it's not what you think!)... turn to page 15 for this one.
- A simple move which guarantees mind-blowing sex... so simple... almost no men know this one, and only 20% of women know about it. (turn to page 25 right now)
- This one "trick" makes women less critical... and men less judgmental... permanently! (turn to page 17 for this hot secret)
- What she wants most in the whole wide world (only 1 in 100 men can even make a decent guess at this one)... on page 18
- The "Flash Signals" that women give off if they are considering leaving a man, and how to read them... All women know about this one, but almost no men know about it, which is why women often say "I can't believe he is so dense." Knowing this can keep marriages strong and long. (turn right to page 30)
- What both partners... surprisingly both partners... desperately want from each other sexually that they almost never get... but when they get it, they are bonded in ways a Mack Truck couldn't pull them apart... This creates "immediate bonding." (page 18)
- A three word phrase that creates an incredible, immediate intimate connection between you (It's not what you think it is)... and guarantees you will never feel alone again. (turn to page 12 right away)
- The real reason why sex drugs (erection dysfunction, etc) are so popular in this country... and how to make these dangerous drugs completely unnecessary (Few understand the negative impact of these sex drugs)... on page 32
- "Very Specific" instructions on how to take each other "the other side of the moon" with incredible sexual climax... Some people, especially women, have actually almost "blacked out" wit pleasure from this technique. (turn to page 25)
- Explicit details on how to turn on the "sex switch" in the bedroom tonight... even if you only have a few minutes to be together... with top techniques... it doesn't matter how much time you have, you can do this almost instantly! (HOT, page 26)
- The almost totally unknown ways that women can (lovingly) control men... and get everything "she" wants in bed... every time! He actually won't know what hit him! (turn to page 22)
- Specific "turn ons" and "turn offs" which in almost every couple guarantee or trash your sexual life with one another. (page 19)
- How to take a "secret survey" of your partner's body and know almost instantly and consistently how to deliver the most mind-blowing pleasure they ever experienced... your partner won't even know how you got to be know exactly how to do this. (go to page 18 upon download quickly)
- The "trigger words" that will make any woman's heart melt... forever. (Not the ones you think they are)... on page 17!
"... the single most powerful... simple... secret of great sex...
and almost NO ONE actually does this... let alone even knows about it...!" | And that's only just the beginning... we are just getting started. There is so much in this simple yet powerful Great Married Ses Program which can give you the precise details about mastering exciting and intense sex with your lover... and creating bonding, intimacy and affection that will last a lifetime! This Might Be Too Rich For Your Blood However, I've said this before. The Great Married Sex Program is not for everyone. Only if you have the "blood" for it... if so, then go for it: My Personal and Professional Guarantee to You
 When you get the downloadable course... if you are offended... no problem... If the course is not to your liking, you can write to me personally and I will personally respond to you... My current fee is $300 an hour (if I were even seeing clients, which I have no need to do anymore), but I am so committed to helping you that I will waive this fee and correspond personally with you for FREE if you have any concerns... for One Full Year (365 days from purchase). Of course I can't guarantee this Program is right for every single person... of course not... and you might find the explicit nature of this sex talk too rich for your blood. You might even feel that having sex this great will put a strain on your marriage... raise the bar... increase expectations. There is nothing wrong with having a ho-hum marriage, if that's what you want. This is a Personal Choice. Or you might feel the price is high. It is higher than some porn tapes or porn on the Internet. But we already said that porn ruins your sex life, so it's not likely you would compare this to porn. It is explcit! Since this is not porn but explicit instructions from a Certified Sex Therapist... you might think it would be academic. But I warn you again... this is straight on sex talk. I just don't want you to get something very explicit without being warned. There may be personal reasons... very personal ones... which you'd rather keep to yourself... about why you wouldn't want to have the greatest sex of your life. It's your right to keep them private! But will you might consider getting the Great Married Sex Package to see if it can answer some of your deeply held questions... and remember if you still have an issue, you can write me. A great thing about the Internet... you don't have to be embarrassed by anyone seeing you buy a book or tape in a store... your neighbor or pastor or someone. So you can get this privately and securely now and examine it in the privacy of your own home. All you have to do is order safe and secure. This information is rare in our world. It is solid and professional, and by a true expert... a person who has truly studied and learned the most powerful sex techniques ever used by married couples... and yet it is explicit and never shies away from true sexual straightforwardness. I thought carefully about the price for this course. I wanted to make sure you could afford it. I don't want to be rude, but if you can't afford this course you may not be that serious about having a great sexual relationship. On the one hand it is special, rare and full of secrets acquired at a great price (tens of thousands of dollars and many years of hard work) by me. But on the other hand, I want to make sure you can afford it... so I settled not on $199.75, which is what my husband said I should charge... but $49.75, which I know is an excellent price for you and which I know you can afford. To have all out explosive sex? The price of Denny's and a movie? I know you can afford it. I do thank you for letting me tell you about these explosive sex secrets known to only a few. I honestly hope I didn't offend you in any way... and here is the download link to get the course right now: click here to have great sex and intimacy in your marriage And, again, thank you for reading this. I hope I have already in some way improved your sex life together! And I wish you great and satisfying sex for your whole life! Pam Givens, MFT Board Certified Sex Therapist and Sexologist My husband and me P.S.: For those of you who want to know more about my background before ordering, please read the information under my photograph at the top of the page. P.P.S. One thing I want to emphasize is that no matter what you do, you should carefully read my warning about porn above. Thank you, and that download link again is
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